No Woman, No Cry..!!!
Well, here I am again, after recieving anonymous comment on dis 'SO-CALLED' controversial blog of mine, I'm reposting it. Now again, a sincere appeal to all my GAL-frenz, m not criticizing WOMEN as a whole, m juz sharing my views with yall openly and I truly mean NO harm as such to anyone. This is dedicated to d bunch of those bitchy babes out there who lack feelings n emotions in them and believe in hurting people for their pleasure.
d topic is 'Women', a symbol of love, purity, domesticity and morality...a pious figure in our Hindu mythology...but with all d evolution going around, would u like to define a 'Woman' with d same adjectives?? emmm...truly speaking I won't..!! now, m not being a male chauvinist here, n neither m I pointing finger at d whole feminine race...but I am referring to those deceptive n deceitful women of dis era, who lack emotions n feeling to understand how a human heart work..!! pardon me for using such strong words, but don't you agree dat nearly all r'ships starts with a hidden factor..?? however, with d time, things may get revealed but few may still stay buried...d bottom-line is dat, usually d base of every r'ship is based on a lie, a false image, people tend to show themselves clean n clear and absolutely pure of hearts...which I think, is as good as cheating on d other person..!! what say??
I cud still recall my childhood days and d hit Bob Marley song dat time, "No Woman, No Cry"... n often I use to wonder as to what exactly it means...!! but for whatever it is, all I can make it out is dat, if there would have been no women, there would have been no pain, no heartbreaks n eventually no cries..!!
Strange but true, women nowadays are turning out to be more dishonest, untrustworthy n flirtatious, and with pride they call themselves AMBITIOUS or rather CONFIDENT...thanks to our modern-age series like "Sex and d City" n "Desperate Housewives", from where they usually draw their inspiration..!! and thanks to d higher male population ratio than to female...they always have this common belief of not being starved, and dat there will always be a better guy available for them...I can list here umpteen number of cases where a guy and his emotions have been hurt countless number of times, without realizing of what all he's been thru..!! without realizing his work tensions, financial n domestic problems...!!!now again, no offence to d whole female majority, those who are being pointed out here are very well aware of their deeds...
So what if there is higher male population..!! who says ours is a male dominated society..?? I'll say we are enjoin' an equal status here and dat day is not very far when it will be a female dominated world..!!! now don't be shocked here...can't u observe d changes in our society?? with men attending regular facial n beauty sessions, growing their hair and wearing much bigger and fuller length clothes and wrapping a rich embroidery 'Dupatta' (Indian scarf) along their neck and gurlz opting for a short-crop hairstyle and wearing jeans, trousers n other revealing clothes, what's in store for us next..!!?? So, there is an honest appeal to all brothers out there…dare not to address the female race as d 'Weaker' or 'Fairer" sex.. women nowadays are as rugged n strong as men use to be once..!!! anywayz, d point here is dat, regardless of all these changes, how cud a human being be so hard hearted against sumone else's emotion n feelings..!! howcome a usual understanding feeling is being missed out..!!! do such gurlz find men juz an object of desire?? or merely a time-pass?? it seems so...!!coz when it comes onto making a boyfriend, they get ready almost instantly, but when d question of tying a knot is concerned, they suddenly seem to get so choosy...!! and probably dat is why by the time d gurl is ready for marriage she ends up having more boyfrends than her age. infact u won't believe, I came across a couple of gurlz who use to rate men on a scale of 5 (its like giving stars to a movie) juz to find a PMM (perfect marriage material).. I wonder if they ever gather d courage to measure themselves on d same scale..!! anywayz, d criteria to be a PMM are:
1. Is he good looking? (there are subdivisions under dis criteria, which includes his height, built, complexion, etc. usually a tall, dark, handsome (TDH) hits a bull's eye here)
2. Is he well settled n how much he earns? (includes his inheritance, house n living style. usually a foreign settled, earning in atleast 8 figures per annum appreciated)
3. Whats his family status? (usually a guy staying away from parents or a single son get 100% marks, a joint family is a BIG NO...!!)
4. He had a past relationship? (actually its kinda hard to score here, but a dumbo, with no past r'ship and purrrrfect virgin rulez dis spot)
5. How's his personality? (well ofcourse d guy shud be presentable so dat he cud be shown off, but other than dat, can he manage d house work, like cooking, laundry, cleaning dishes, taking care of kids, etc)
And no matter how good you score here, there will always be complains…so you should be able to be calm n well composed to handle all dat, n try your best to rise up to HER expectations..!! The main point is, besides being a true n faithful lover n probably d best boyfriend, howcome d same guy doesn't fit appropriate as a hubby..!!? why suddenly such a sweet r'ship turns out to b a mistake?? why there are heartbreaks?? why there is so much of pain around..why..why..why??? *sigh*
I still don't know what Bob Marley was thinking while composing dat song...but surely, if there wud have been NO WOMEN.. there wud have NO CRIES...!!!
d topic is 'Women', a symbol of love, purity, domesticity and morality...a pious figure in our Hindu mythology...but with all d evolution going around, would u like to define a 'Woman' with d same adjectives?? emmm...truly speaking I won't..!! now, m not being a male chauvinist here, n neither m I pointing finger at d whole feminine race...but I am referring to those deceptive n deceitful women of dis era, who lack emotions n feeling to understand how a human heart work..!! pardon me for using such strong words, but don't you agree dat nearly all r'ships starts with a hidden factor..?? however, with d time, things may get revealed but few may still stay buried...d bottom-line is dat, usually d base of every r'ship is based on a lie, a false image, people tend to show themselves clean n clear and absolutely pure of hearts...which I think, is as good as cheating on d other person..!! what say??
I cud still recall my childhood days and d hit Bob Marley song dat time, "No Woman, No Cry"... n often I use to wonder as to what exactly it means...!! but for whatever it is, all I can make it out is dat, if there would have been no women, there would have been no pain, no heartbreaks n eventually no cries..!!
Strange but true, women nowadays are turning out to be more dishonest, untrustworthy n flirtatious, and with pride they call themselves AMBITIOUS or rather CONFIDENT...thanks to our modern-age series like "Sex and d City" n "Desperate Housewives", from where they usually draw their inspiration..!! and thanks to d higher male population ratio than to female...they always have this common belief of not being starved, and dat there will always be a better guy available for them...I can list here umpteen number of cases where a guy and his emotions have been hurt countless number of times, without realizing of what all he's been thru..!! without realizing his work tensions, financial n domestic problems...!!!now again, no offence to d whole female majority, those who are being pointed out here are very well aware of their deeds...
So what if there is higher male population..!! who says ours is a male dominated society..?? I'll say we are enjoin' an equal status here and dat day is not very far when it will be a female dominated world..!!! now don't be shocked here...can't u observe d changes in our society?? with men attending regular facial n beauty sessions, growing their hair and wearing much bigger and fuller length clothes and wrapping a rich embroidery 'Dupatta' (Indian scarf) along their neck and gurlz opting for a short-crop hairstyle and wearing jeans, trousers n other revealing clothes, what's in store for us next..!!?? So, there is an honest appeal to all brothers out there…dare not to address the female race as d 'Weaker' or 'Fairer" sex.. women nowadays are as rugged n strong as men use to be once..!!! anywayz, d point here is dat, regardless of all these changes, how cud a human being be so hard hearted against sumone else's emotion n feelings..!! howcome a usual understanding feeling is being missed out..!!! do such gurlz find men juz an object of desire?? or merely a time-pass?? it seems so...!!coz when it comes onto making a boyfriend, they get ready almost instantly, but when d question of tying a knot is concerned, they suddenly seem to get so choosy...!! and probably dat is why by the time d gurl is ready for marriage she ends up having more boyfrends than her age. infact u won't believe, I came across a couple of gurlz who use to rate men on a scale of 5 (its like giving stars to a movie) juz to find a PMM (perfect marriage material).. I wonder if they ever gather d courage to measure themselves on d same scale..!! anywayz, d criteria to be a PMM are:
1. Is he good looking? (there are subdivisions under dis criteria, which includes his height, built, complexion, etc. usually a tall, dark, handsome (TDH) hits a bull's eye here)
2. Is he well settled n how much he earns? (includes his inheritance, house n living style. usually a foreign settled, earning in atleast 8 figures per annum appreciated)
3. Whats his family status? (usually a guy staying away from parents or a single son get 100% marks, a joint family is a BIG NO...!!)
4. He had a past relationship? (actually its kinda hard to score here, but a dumbo, with no past r'ship and purrrrfect virgin rulez dis spot)
5. How's his personality? (well ofcourse d guy shud be presentable so dat he cud be shown off, but other than dat, can he manage d house work, like cooking, laundry, cleaning dishes, taking care of kids, etc)
And no matter how good you score here, there will always be complains…so you should be able to be calm n well composed to handle all dat, n try your best to rise up to HER expectations..!! The main point is, besides being a true n faithful lover n probably d best boyfriend, howcome d same guy doesn't fit appropriate as a hubby..!!? why suddenly such a sweet r'ship turns out to b a mistake?? why there are heartbreaks?? why there is so much of pain around..why..why..why??? *sigh*
I still don't know what Bob Marley was thinking while composing dat song...but surely, if there wud have been NO WOMEN.. there wud have NO CRIES...!!!
posted by Aki d gr8.. @ 12:23 AM
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